Is Social Media Living up to Its Promise of Connection? Americans Are Torn

  Is Social Media Living up to Its Promise of Connection? Americans Are Torn

Practicing Good Habits Online Can Help – A Pressing Need Since More than Half
             of Americans Are Worried About Social Media’s Impact

   Expert Offers Ways to Use Social Media to Enrich Your Life, Rather Than
                       Distract From What Matters Most

Business Wire

NEW YORK -- February 13, 2013

Despite the much-heralded rise of social networking as a tool for building
connections, most Americans feel it hasn’t helped cultivate social ties. In
fact, half (51%) say that social networking has had a negative impact on how
people interact with one another in society. Only 36% of survey respondents
think social networking websites have improved their relationships with family
and friends.

These findings are part of a series of announcements from the Keep Good Going
Report, sponsored by New York Life, a survey of more than 2,000 Americans
exploring attitudes and expectations about how they can cultivate goodness in
their lives.

“Most people can’t avoid social media today, even if they want to. But this
Report reveals that many people have mixed feelings about social media’s
influence on their lives,” said Christine Carter, Ph.D., author of Raising
Happiness, sociologist at UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, and
independent consultant to New York Life. “The key is knowing how to use media
like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram to foster happiness in your life and in
the lives of others. This ensures that new technologies are positive forces in
your life, rather than negative ones.”

Even the most frequent social networkers are divided on whether these online
communities are a positive force in society. More than half of respondents
(53%) use social networking at least once a week. Among this group, about one
in two (48%) feel that social networking makes no positive impact on how
individuals interact with each other in society. A surprisingly large number
(44%) also feel that social networking has not helped them strengthen
relationships with family and friends.

With social media growing quickly and becoming increasingly well-established,
tips and advice on how to use these tools to foster goodness are more
important than ever. Dr. Christine Carter offers the following tips to use
social media to perpetuate the good in your life:

1) Use social media to foster real-life social connections. To deepen
connections to others, use Facebook to find a long-lost friend or use Twitter
to send a funny article to your spouse.

2) Think about who you’d like to become in the future, and use social media as
a tool to help you get there. Use social networking to enhance certain
practices that we know increase happiness. For example, one way to express
gratitude may be to post a photo of something that you feel grateful for on
Instagram to share it with others in your life.

3) Think about how you want to influence the world for the better. Social
media is a powerful way to influence the world for good. Posting quotations,
articles, and photographs that inspire us and others is one good way to get

For more tips and information from Dr. Carter, please visit

Survey Methodology

The Keep Good Going Report survey was sponsored by New York Life and conducted
online by Mathew Greenwald & Associates, Inc., in August 2012, among 2,069
individuals age 21 or older.

Committed to helping people perpetuate the good in their lives, New York Life
Insurance Company, a Fortune 100 company founded in 1845, is the largest
mutual life insurance company in the United States* and one of the largest
life insurers in the world. New York Life has the highest financial strength
ratings currently awarded to any life insurer by all four of the major credit
rating agencies.** Headquartered in New York City, New York Life’s family of
companies offers life insurance, retirement income, investments and long-term
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*Based on revenue as reported by “Fortune 500 ranked within Industries,
Insurance: Life, Health (Mutual),” Fortune magazine, May 21, 2012. See for

**Source: Third-party ratings reports as of 2/1/13.


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